When a Child Arrangements Order is in place, it’s meant to ensure that both parents follow a structured plan for their child’s welfare. But what happens if your ex-partner isn’t adhering to the terms of the order? This guide will help you understand the steps you can take to address the situation and ensure that your child’s best interests are protected.
1. Try to Resolve It Informally
Start by having a calm conversation with your ex to address the issue. A polite reminder may resolve the situation. If direct communication fails, consider mediation to help both parties reach an agreement without court involvement.
2. Keep Detailed Records
If informal communication and mediation fail, it’s crucial to keep a detailed record of any violations. This includes missed visitations, late pickups, or any instances where the Child Arrangements Order isn’t being followed. Be sure to log the date, time, and details of each incident, and keep any relevant correspondence. This evidence will be vital if you need to take legal action and will help demonstrate that your ex is not adhering to the agreed-upon arrangement.
3. Consider Applying for a Specific Issue or Prohibited Steps Order
- Specific Issue Order: This is used when there’s a specific disagreement about the Child Arrangements Order that you can’t resolve, such as issues regarding schooling or medical decisions for your child.
- Prohibited Steps Order: If your ex is taking actions that directly violate the order, such as trying to move your child out of the area without your consent, this order can stop them from doing so.
4. Enforcement of the Order
If your ex continues to ignore the Child Arrangements Order, they may be in contempt of court. The court has several enforcement options, including: Fines, Community Service and Imprisonment.
5. Seek Legal Advice
If the situation doesn’t improve, consulting a family law solicitor is essential. At Rose & Rose Solicitors, we’re here to protect your rights and your child’s well-being. Contact us for support throughout the process.
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See our related previous articles;
- What is a Child Arrangements Order, and do I need one?
- Parental Alienation in Child Arrangements Proceedings
- Navigating Child Arrangements During the Upcoming Summer Holidays
- Prohibited Steps Orders
This blog post is not intended to be taken as advice or acted upon. If you are seeking legal advice, please contact our team of solicitors.





